Introducing Your Labrador To The New Baby
Bringing a new baby home is an amazing experience. It is also a daunting and exhausting one.
A Labrador in the house can complicate things somewhat.
People often ask: “How should I introduce my dog to the baby” when perhaps the question should be:
“Should I introduce my dog to the baby”
There is actually no need to make a big deal out of contrived introductions.
If no fuss is made your dog will probably just accept this small person as a rather boring member of the family that doesn’t run around or do anything interesting yet.
The fact is, your baby and your dog will need to be either closely supervised or separated at all times for many months to come.
Being playmates together is quite a distant aim right now.
Occasionally however, a dog will take a particular interest in a baby and you will become aware that he is intent on getting up close and personal to the small person in the cradle.
At this point it is important to remind you of what I am sure you are already aware.
Baby and dog safety
No dog should ever be left alone with a baby. Failing to observe this simple rule may result in a terrible tragedy
We can all understand why a dog might snap at a toddler that has him cornered and is poking things in his eyes.
But why do perfectly nice dogs occasionally attack babies?
We don’t know for sure, but it is possible that the cries of the baby may occasionally trigger a primitive predatory response in a dog.
For this reason, no matter how friendly and well intentioned he may seem, it is vital that you never leave your dog alone with your baby.
Separating baby and dog with barriers
If you were not planning on installing baby gates (paid link)until your baby became mobile, now might be a good time to rethink that policy. It might also be a good time to fetch the dog crate out of the garage or buying a new one to use for a while(paid link). Make sure to get the dog used to being in there occasionally before baby arrives if you can.
That way you can have a safe place for your dog to sleep and chew his kong, whilst you pay attention to the baby or whilst you leave the baby in his moses basket in the same room.
Preparing before the baby arrives
In addition to arranging a few barriers(paid link), the weeks and months before the baby’s arrival are good times to brush up on your dog’s obedience.
It is especially important to teach him not to poke you or jump up on you.
If your dog is going to be in the same room as you and the baby, he needs to be capable of lying down on command and staying there until you release him.
If he doesn’t have one already, get him a mat, basket, or cushion in your family room and teach him to lie in it whilst you are sitting in a chair or on the sofa.
In the evening whilst you watch TV is a good time to teach these skills.
That way, when you sit down on the sofa with the baby in your arms, the baby won’t end up with dog slobber all over his face.
See: Train your Labrador to relax
Teaching your dog to walk nicely on a lead is another priority, as managing a buggy with a dog that pulls, is no joke. If you are short on time for training then invest in a good quality harness (paid link)to help you out.
Teaching a ‘leave it’ command is another strategy you will find useful with a small baby and baby paraphenalia around the house.
Baby and Dog Hygiene
Don’t forget to worm your dog thoroughly(paid link) before the baby arrives. Even then, it isn’t a great idea to let your dog sniff and lick your new arrival.
He doesn’t need to do it, he has probably just licked his own bottom, and your baby doesn’t need to be on the receiving end.
It is also worth pointing out, that many dogs really love to eat soiled nappies so make sure you have a sturdy diaper bin(paid link) for those ready and waiting.
Babies and bouncy dogs!
If your dog is very boisterous and you just can’t get to grips with training him at the moment, you will need to keep the dog and the baby very much apart to begin with.
Again, the crate or baby gates will confine the dog away from where you want to sit and feed or cuddle the baby.
This is very important if your dog becomes excited when you handle the baby, or when the baby cries.
Avoiding problems with the dog and the baby
Making time for your dog may be hard during the early weeks, but if you can try not to disrupt his normal walking routine as much as possible, this will help avoid any frustration, hyperactivity or jealousy on his part.
Get a family member to reward the dog with treats when he lying quietly watching you feed the baby.
Use your ‘leave it’ command if the dog goes to sniff or lick the baby and reward him generously when he complies.
Focus on rewarding him for ignoring the baby, and he will soon be relaxed and happy around your new arrival.
More help and information
This article was written by Pippa Mattinson. Pippa happily raised her four babies in a household with several dogs.
(paid link)For a complete guide to raising a healthy and happy puppy don’t miss The Happy Puppy Handbook.
The Happy Puppy Handbook covers every aspect of life with a small puppy.
The book will help you prepare your home for the new arrival, and get your puppy off to a great start with potty training, socialisation and early obedience.
The Happy Puppy Handbook is available(paid link) worldwide.
Free Labrador Updates!
Get my training tips, news, reviews, and the latest from The Labrador Site delivered to your inbox
Hi Pippa, I can’t find a situation similar to mine, so I’m writing you in case of any suggestion. I have a 4 years old yellow lab and I love him as my son and became pregnant (29 weeks now) and my dog starting to pee in the house (is the terrace, were hi sleeps). He is trained to pee in the green lawn and started this behavior before I got pregnant so I don’t think that is something to do with my pregnancy. He have been check at the doctor and doesn’t have urinary problems and we have been using vinegar in every spot he pees but he never stops. Any thoughts on what could be happening?? I will really appreciate.
Thanks!
I just wanted to share my experience with bringing home baby. I swear my black lab knew I was pregnant. Everytime I would sit in the floor with her she would lay her head on my belly. The baby would even “kick” her. She would just look at me and lay her head back down. Before my son was born we let her sniff around in the nursery and I gave her a baby blanket to do with as she pleased to get used to the baby smell. Once my son was born, my husband took one of the receiving blankets that he was wrapped in, home the night before the baby was to come home. We did this so she would be used to the smell. When we arrived home I sat on the couch holding my son and she came over sniffed his feet and went to lay on her bed. She is a calm and good natured dog. My son is now 5 years old and my lab is now, according to the vet, an advanced senior. She used to be my dog, now she is my son’s, because she wont leave his side. They have become good friends.
Hi pippa that’s a great article I’ve a 9 month baby girl Im getting a 8week old chocolate lab in a week’s time I’ve also a 2 year old girl and 2 older children could u give me any advice to help the wee dog settle in to its new environment it will be new to her and also a new experience for the children also. Thanxs John.
Hi John,
You are certainly going to have your hands full. The main problem with small children is that they tend to get puppies overexcited, and are not able to handle the ‘biting’. I suggest you read everything you can lay your hands on to prepare yourself, including the articles in the puppy section, and join the forum.
You might find the following articles especially helpful
First days at home
Labrador puppies biting
How to play safely
Good luck and have fun
Pippa
Great article Pippa, we’re expecting baby number 4 in July, so this is very timely advice!
Thanks Chris, you still have a little bit of time left to prepare then 🙂 Four is a great number!